Question:
So..i am going out with this great guy! During school things were going fantastic. I like this guy alot. But since school ended we dont talk to each other often and we barely see each other. Half the time it doesnt even feel like i have a boyfriend. People ask me how we are and im just usually like "uhh fine" because i truly dont know how we are. I just dont know what to do. Its wicked hard. We have talked about it and he is just so busy cause his family has a business. I just dont know what to do
Answer:
You could try setting a time each week week (or twice a week or whatever) where you can talk on the phone or msn or whatever. You could also set a "date night." Find one night/day during the week that you are both free for long enough to hang out or go do something. This might not work, but depending on what his job is, maybe you could meet him for his lunch break. Whatever you do, just be intentional about it. And ask him how he thinks the relationship is going.
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okay thanks
we are gonna hang out tomorrow
we are going swimming for his sisters birthday
so we will see what happens
thanks for your help Emo_Rachael
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We talked about it and we are gonna start spending more time together
he left for Tennessee today
this is something he has been planning and looking forward to for a long time
he has invited me to go to Diamond Lake with his family for the fourth of july
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Sweet. I'm glad to hear that you two talked about it, have spent more time together, and are already making plans to see eachother more!