Question:
if this is confusing please forgive me...
two years ago this girl from my church stopped going and she recently came back in the last two months or so. Now, I wasn't attracted to her originally when I first new her, but when she came back to church I thought I did. But the problem was that I was attracted to her looks and not her. About a month ago she gave me a note and basicly said that I acted like I liked her and that she isn't sure if she likes me. So we started talking and I basicly told her that I didn't know where I stood with my feelings for her. She was cool about it and all. Last sunday my one friend and I were talking and she said she was up all saturday night at a sleep over just because the girl wanted to talk about me. My friend also said that the girl likes me alot, but she hasn't told me because she doesn't want to be rejected Now, I have looked at everything and decided that I don't really like her more than as a friend or as a sister, but I don't know how to tell her cause I don't want to hurt her. If you could give help before tonight that would be great because I will be seeing her at church.
Answer:
Well its hard sometimes with those "my friend said this about this girl" scanrios but if your worried about her feelings than you could just talk to her tonight and be stright up about how you feel. It would be the best thing for her because then she won't be lead on and set up for hurt later. Bascially you just have to be honost with her.
Or you could wait until she says something first, but it might be better if you took the initive on this one.
She handed you a note, maybe you could do the same??
Answer:
Just tell her. Who knows, maybe later on your feelings will change. Dont take your time to tell her, dont avoid her, just tell her how you feel and get on with life as being friends.