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ok me and this guy have liked each other for about 10 months but were only 14.. and we havnt really dated or anything or gone out.. because he doesnt want too he thinks were "too young" soo we havnt done like anything together but for some reason i really like him..
reply and tell me what you think
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reply and tell me what you think
Be his friend-keep loking him-but pray against the raging hormones!!!
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Originally Posted by nolidad Be his friend-keep loking him-but pray against the raging hormones!!!
thanks i will do!
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I think that was the easiest thread this forum has ever seen. (^_^)
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Originally Posted by ChristianRock32 ok me and this guy have liked each other for about 10 months but were only 14.. and we havnt really dated or anything or gone out.. because he doesnt want too he thinks were "too young" soo we havnt done like anything together but for some reason i really like him..
reply and tell me what you think my reply? he's right. you're too young.
ummmm... what were you thinking we would say or would happen considering he's already told you he thinks you're too young for dating?
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Originally Posted by ChristianRock32 for some reason i really like him.. Yes, it's called human nature. Emotions don't tend to explain themselves, so the fact that you're "too young" is not likely to have any effect on whether you like him or not. However, he's probably right; you're probably too young. So, just keep doing what you're doing already: be friends. Don't worry about a relationship right now. Heck, I'm 19 and I don't think I'm ready for a relationship.
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do you ever have any phone conversations with this kid? just be his freind, a really good freind. and trust him. if you can. and he'll trust you. and if both of you are patient enough, then you can go on from there.
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ok me and this guy have liked each other for about 10 months but were only 14.. and we havnt really dated or anything or gone out.. because he doesnt want too he thinks were "too young" soo we havnt done like anything together
Well, I know that it's probably not what you want to hear, but I think that you are too young. 14 is when the hormones start kicking in, and you should probably wait until the two of you know that you can keep the feelings in check. Besides, dating at 14 I think is futile, if we figure that dating is a way of getting to know someone whom you may want to marry. The reality is that very few people who date young end up marrying the people whom they dated. I don't mean to sound like the voice of doom and gloom, but I don't believe that I'd be doing you any favours by not telling you what I've seen. I'm sorry if it dashes your hopes, but ultimately, I think that this is for the better.
but for some reason i really like him..
It's normal to like people. But we have to be discerning as to how we go about acting or not acting on how we feel. I face the same struggles every, to act, or to not act, and right now, the second option is the better of the two for me, because I still don't know what I'm going to do with the rest of my life, and I don't want the course of my life to be dictated by a relationship. You're still young. Enjoy being young while you can. Once you get a bot older, you'll wish that you didn't have to deal with relationship issues, because as you progress in life, the issues become more complicated. You want to go in this direction, but the guy want to go in the other, you want to get married right away, he's not sure, you want to have a career, he thinks that the kids should have a full-time mum, you want to visit your parents on Christmas Eve, but he wants to take the family to see his three hours away, etc. etc. etc. Just enjoy being 14 and not having these kinds of things to bother you.
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Originally Posted by Jake the Snake do you ever have any phone conversations with this kid? just be his freind, a really good freind. and trust him. if you can. and he'll trust you. and if both of you are patient enough, then you can go on from there.
ya we do talk on the phone alot but im gonna take ur advice we have been really good friends for a year and im just gonna be patient with him.. thanks for the advice..