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Ive been friends w/ this boy for 4 months know. we have been hanging out alot doing college and at the ymca ( playing basketball and working out and going to lunch ) hes is 3 yrs younger then i. he jokes arould all the time. he knew from the beginging that i liked him. so far hes been acting weird. like the other day i was shoting some hoops at the ymca and the basketball was going over to the other side its a small basketball gym. one of the guys was getting mad. so i went to the big basketball gym and my pal told me that he cant protect me evey time when the ball goes to the other side. i had to go to the lib. he came w/ me to help me w/ my paper so while he was helping me he asked me why i only have makeup just around my eyes, not on the rest of my face i told him that i do but not all the time. i was going to get the bus. so he ask me if he can used my cell i let him then he said sic, so he ran out of the college he expected me to run after him i didnt want too. so i meet him at the bus stop , he was waiting for me. he gave me back my cell. one of hes buds well he told him that i said " stop playing hard to get" , which i didnt even ask his bud to tell him. he knows that i want to go out w/ him. he says that he only wants to be friends w/ me. he knows that i had an ex. he never had a girl. i just dont know how he feels about me, and why hes acting weird?
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Aren't you like 24? Doesn't it bother you that this guy is behaving like a 12 year old? I mean, grabbing your phone and running off with it to try to get you to chase him? I haven't heard of anyone older than 16 doing something like that. It sounds to me that he likes you, but in a Junior High sort of way.
I would just level with him and ask him to tell you how he feels about you.
If he says he just wants to be friends, tell him to stop flirting.
PS - I should let you know that I'm 18 and have never had a girlfriend, so take my advice for what it's worth... assuming it's worth anything at all.
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Ok I'm 23 and married, I could never imagine my husband acting this way....he needs to grow up a little. Like bob said, this reminds me of something a junior high guy would do. If you are 24 like your profile says, I would be looking for men, not boys. If he's this immature you should move on.
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Punctuation is your friend.
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Spelling doesn't hurt either.
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Your question seems to be, How do I deal with thoughtless, inconsiderate people?
My answer would be, You don't pursue romantic relationships with them.
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Yojimbo and Novan_Leon, please do not be rude to the posters here. Post something pertaining to the topic please.
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I feel compelled to answer the post, but I seriously do not understand it. The person would get more advice if her post were clearer, that's all.
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The answer is the same answer to the same question that you've asked countless times before. You just asked us, "i just dont know how he feels about me, and why hes acting weird?" You also just stated about him, "he says that he only wants to be friends w/ me." There's you answer. He's acting weird because he knows you want more out your friendship than he does. He probably feels pressured by you and is reacting accordingly.
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I dunno. This kind of weird behavior by a boy, I think, signifies that he might like her. When a girl likes me and I don't like her, I aspire to act as boring and dull as possible around her.
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thanks. i meet up w/ him at the lib. this morring. we talked bout movies then i was going to leave cause of class. so he took my ti-clip from me. i ask him to give it back , he finally did. but i was late to class. he was sick so he didnt go to any of his classes. he only came to school just to talk to me. we call each other , talking for 3 hours bout any thing.
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Originally Posted by eagles04 thanks. i meet up w/ him at the lib. this morring. we talked bout movies then i was going to leave cause of class. so he took my ti-clip from me. i ask him to give it back , he finally did. but i was late to class. Again, this behavior is kinda silly. I would recommend just sticking with friendship for now.
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I don't even understand why you are asking for advice. If you want to know how he feels about you, then ask him. He is the only one who knows his feelings.
If he says he only wants to be friends, then just be his friend.
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Originally Posted by Singin4Him82 Yojimbo and Novan_Leon, please do not be rude to the posters here. Post something pertaining to the topic please.
I apologize. Honestly, I can't understand what she's asking. Perhaps you can rephrase your question in one or two sentences eagles04. My first impression is that your overreacting to something extremely inconsequential.
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Originally Posted by bobthecockroach Aren't you like 24? Doesn't it bother you that this guy is behaving like a 12 year old? I mean, grabbing your phone and running off with it to try to get you to chase him? I haven't heard of anyone older than 16 doing something like that. It sounds to me that he likes you, but in a Junior High sort of way.
I would just level with him and ask him to tell you how he feels about you.
If he says he just wants to be friends, tell him to stop flirting. Ditto. He's acting like a child would act. I haven't done anything like that since I was 16 or so and then it was just to be a pain. If he's not interested, then tell him to stop playing around like that. Even if he is interested, tell him to stop playing around like that. It's juvenile.