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Confused
Question: Well, there is that girl(like in 90% of the advice threads ), let's call her A.C, a while ago she had a crush on me, but then when I got to know about this from her friend(Let's call her E.K), as far as I can understand she was scared that I might reject her or something because of this(I didn't like her), so she said she was just thinking she might like me, but now she got over it. Anyway, I didn't give big attention to this(After all we were very good friends, and I didn't want to ruin something because of a small issue). But then E.K started to act all wierd for some time, until finally she told me on phone that she likes me. Well I told her that I don't like her, but want to stay her friend. Then to my knowledge got from another friend(Let's not call her any names because she is one time in this story ), this friend is a good friend of E.K, and knows A.C very well. Well, she told me (Without the other girls knowing), that A.C likes me, and E.K does, so I need to be careful not to cause any jealosy problems(They are both my good friends). Anyway, to make long story shorter, E.K had jealousy problems for a while(She always had problems with me giving attention to A.C), until she apparently got over it all(Jealousy and the crush). But the problem now, is that A.C is acting now in a really uhm "interesting way". She obviously acts like she likes me, but when you talk to her about it openly, she denies it. What even more troublesome for me, is that I start to like her too. For an example, we had a youth camp lately. And all the camp through, she was 24 hours a day with me. And after it, people started thinking that I'm her boyfriend or something. I won't list all the things she does(They aren't that bad anyway), but the whole world knows, and is sure that she likes me. First of all, I'm 15, she is 13.. And I seriously don't think that it is a time for any relationship. I tried to talk to her once about it, but she kinda denies that she likes me, but still acts the same way(Even though I ask her to stop acting like that if she really doesn't like me, because it makes people assume things(Other people, that is)). I really want to get the situation get clear, but I also want us to stay good friends, like we are now(That means, doing something without wrecking anything). Any tips? (Hope you understood anything from that story) Answer: hey dude. I think i got your story. and I also think that you are wise not to enter a romantic relationship. I'm sorry, but the only advise I have for you is: be open, be honest, and talk to them about it. Answer: She's thirteen years old.... Get the heck away from her. As fast as your legs can possibly run. If I were an advocate for teen relationships, which I am not, I would STILL advise you to stay away from a 13 year old girl. All she will do is play head games with herself, and you. And in the end you will be pissed off and she will hate you. Get away. Now, as you apparently know this, just tell her that you don't like her. Simple as that. Tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship. Be totally honest. Answer: Ok, here's what you have to understand: At thirteen years old, girls are throwing themselves at every single male specimen on the planet; 7th grade boys, small woodland creatures, you name it. And girls like it. Why? Because their Hormone Concentration is high enough to get them arrested for public intoxication. Trust me. It's quite meaningless. Answer: My gut reaction is that you should play the fool; just be her friend and ignore any come-ons, don't treat her special in any way. Then again, that's just my gut reaction. Copyright © 2007 - 2008 www.thanktoday.com
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