Question:
My friends have all dumped me. Not one of then wil return my phone calls and I have been home every friday or saturday night for the last month. And its been a month since I last talked to them. Suddenly Im not worthy to hang out with them and I dont desrve return phone calls.
One of my friends was going in the air force reserves and my friends were going to hang out at another friends house as a going away party. I went to the friends house who was having the party and had the door slammed in my face.
i want to talk to my friend to find out what i did wrong but how can i when no one with return my calls?
Im a nice person with a good sense of humor and fun to hang out with. i dont understand it. I dont think i want to have any friends. i am a loner anyway i was used to not having friends. i just keep geting burned.
Answer:
So what happened between you and your friends. People don't just randomly decide to start shunning someone. Did you have a disagreement with them?
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One of my friends was going in the air force reserves and my friends were going to hang out at another friends house as a going away party. I went to the friends house who was having the party and had the door slammed in my face.
I echo Chris here--look ast your life and ponder what you may have done or "appeared to have done" to cause these folks such anger. And fromthe sounds of it--I wonder just how much "friends" they really are.
If you have done saomething they should have approached you to talk , hopefully if you get a chance to things will iron outr. Inthe meantime maybe find some other folk to call "friend".
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I almost want to bet money that this has something to do with a bf/gf relationship. That's why 95% of doorslams-in-the-face happen.
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I hate having friends.
I forgot this--you actually love having friends-it is being slammed on you don't like form people you like.