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I feel alone need help!
Question: people, I feel all alone. I feel like no ones there. I feel like im in a room with nothing there. It feels like all there is in a world is my self. How do i not feel this way? Answer: Believe it or not, I think you're suffering from some type of anxiety. Seperation anxiety, maybe. It's tough, but you can find ways to stop feeling this way. Can you call someone? A friend from school or from church perhaps? Are you close to any members of your family? Could you tell them how you're feeling? Seek company. Then you won't be alone. Spiritually, you never alone though. God is always there. Always keep that in your heart and mind. God is with you always. He will not forsake you or seperate Himself from you. Just pursue Him and He will be there. Also, you might try reading your Bible. You'd be suprised how not alone you might feel by reading it. Oh yeah! And CGR is always there! Answer: Hey man, I have been feeling this way a lot, lately. I am coming out of it, actually. The only advice I can give you: Just don't dwell on how alone you are. It makes it worse. Whether you are truly alone or not, thinking about it will hurt. Read a book. Write an expositive paper. Maybe do some pushups, or situps. Just don't sit and brood. Always take it to God. He can carry all of your cares in a much more competent way. My encouragement to you: This shall soon pass. Don't worry, this feeling isn't there to stay. It will go away. Just try to look forward to when things get back to normal, and you won't feel alone. Just look forward, it will get better soon. Answer: Hey buddy, I definitely know how you feel. I went through this about maybe two years ago, and it sucked.. Andrew has good advice. Don't dwell on yourself, but rather God. Thats what I did, and I managed to come out of it alive. I'll pray for you. Answer: Hey. i agree w/ Andrew and you can always pm me you know! Answer: Talk to people. If you're lacking social interaction, interact. If you feel lost around your friends or during socialization, then there's a whole other problem, methinks. Answer: Originally Posted by Joseph352 people, I feel all alone. I feel like no ones there. I feel like im in a room with nothing there. It feels like all there is in a world is my self. How do i not feel this way? Congratulations, your normal. Everyone goes through that to some degree or another. At one point several years ago, I felt the same way - like I was standing in a crowded room screaming and no one even knew I was there. Trust God and strive to glorify Him, He brings storms to mold us into who He wants us, then he bring us out of the storms a little bit more like Him. Answer: "Sometimes God takes away what we think we need to show us that He is what we need" -Wild at Heart (I think) Hope that helps. Answer: Originally Posted by Joseph352 people, I feel all alone. I feel like no ones there. I feel like im in a room with nothing there. It feels like all there is in a world is my self. How do i not feel this way? Hey man, i know how you feel, I'm 20, still living at home, but I rarely see any of my fmaily. I work 2-midnight, so bythe time I wake up they are gone, when I get home they are all in bed. I don't get to hang out with my friends too much, the only time I have to hang out with anyone is one the weekends, and I like to spend at least some of that time with the family, and Ihave to use it to get caught up on like laundry and stuff. On top of that I have this desire for a long term relationship, though I know its normal and its not time for me t have one, there is still that desire making me feel all the more lonely, but some words came to me one day, I like to write poetry and thats the form tha these words came to me so I wrote them down: The Friend I need Surrounded by the deafening sound of silence, I sit here with every friend I need. The sound of silence broken not by a voice, Rather by a tear from my heart. This friend I sit with is not one I see, But one that died for me. This tear of joy follows an ache of solitude, A once dry soul moistened. This friend is the water in my tear, He brought me joy and comfort. Alone in the deafening sound of silence, I am surrounded by every friend I need. I don't know if that wil help, but I hope it will. Answer: hey... get lots of exercise and lots of sleep in a good pattern and healthy food.... i know it sounds dumb like why would this help, but they do!! eating badly, no physical exercise, and not enough sleep lead to feeling depressed... not suffereing from depression, but feeling down etc. so yeah try it for a few weeks.... eat healthy, going walking or whatever you like to do.... and go to bed early and get up early... it really will help! Answer: Believe it or not, I think you're suffering from some type of anxiety. Seperation anxiety, maybe. It's tough, but you can find ways to stop feeling this way. Well, I thought I was over this girl that moved away a few months ago. I guess not. I gonna try to talk to one of my friends i trust most wends. That might help. Also, you might try reading your Bible. You'd be suprised how not alone you might feel by reading it. do you (or anyone) know any scripture I could use? Answer: Read just about any part of Psalms, and I'm sure you'll be able to find some encouragment and words that you can relate to. King David wrote a great majority of the psalms and believe me - he felt all alone a lot of the time. But he writes about what keeps him strong and I think you will enjoy reading the joy that can be felt through his words. Also, if you're interested in some interesting stories of people who suffered from mass loneliness, I think you might try reading the story of Joseph in Genesis and skim through the book of Job. Joseph was sold into slavery by his own brothers, so you can imagine how alone he felt then. And Job went through mass trials when he lost his wife, his children, his livestock, his crop, and attained a bad case of boils all over his body - that must have been a really lonely time too! But if you read about them, you'll see how they overcome their problems and issues of loneliness and it will likely encourage you in your walk with God. Good idea about talking to a friend. Just find someone you feel you can release your feelings to. It's good to get those thoughts and problems out in the open. You don't have to suffer in silence and wait for this feeling to go away. You can ask for help, and there's nothing wrong with that. So rock on for seeking any company or counsel. Good plan. Copyright © 2007 - 2008 www.thanktoday.com
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