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Confused
Question: Here I go... No he podido entenderlo que esta pasando me... I haven't been able to understand what's been happening to me... Se que mi mejor amiga ya se caso, pero aun la amo en un differente forma pero aun la amo... I know that my best friend is already married, but I still love her, en a different way, but I still do... Perdido... Lost... Any help would do right now... Que alguien me ayuda! Answer: What do you mean...you love her in a different way? Your post is very vague. Could you give a little more information? Answer: You need to give this up. I remember the origins of this I believe, and lusting after another man's wife is a sin. All it can lead to is adultery. Give her up. Answer: Matthew 5 28But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. What relationship did you have with her before she got married? Does she insist on staying friends with you now? Do you see her away from her husband? Answer: Emotions. Everyone has them but we have to learn to control them. She's married; she's off-limits. Don't act or dwell on your emotions and they'll eventually go away. Answer: Originally Posted by bobthecockroach Emotions. Everyone has them but we have to learn to control them. She's married; she's off-limits. Don't act or dwell on your emotions and they'll eventually go away. even if they never go away, you have to ignore them. Answer: Yup, she's another man's wife. You need to understand this - you have no choice but to leave her alone. Answer: She in still want to be my friend... And so does her family, and I don't know what to do... Answer: While everyone else has spoken solid truth so far I have a couple things I want to throw in too, just to add to it. Possibly one of the most obvious things in my mind. "You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor." Exodus 20:17 (emphasis mine) Commandment Number Ten. She's your neighbour's wife now. You may take it in a current context, saying something like "Well, we don't live in the same neighbourhood, he's not my neighbour". Even if you live halfway around the world it doesn't justify coveting and likely lusting after someone else's wife. You need to move on. However painful it may be. No good can come of the situation as it is. Answer: Although you and she both want to remain friends... I find it very unwise. Seeing as how she is 100% unavailable and seeing as how you want to be with her as more than just a friend, I would suggest that you drop any form of contact with her. I would suggest that you move on and act as if you never knew her. Your strong desire for her can cause a huge problem in her marriage (and therefore, her happiness). Copyright © 2007 - 2008 www.thanktoday.com
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