Question:
So, this is the first time I've ever posted anything like this.
There's this girl I like, or thought I liked. We got each other things for Valentine's Day and other things like that and I'm thinking she likes me. Well, I've been talking to her best friend to see what makes the girl tick and whatever and now we just plain talk a lot. I think I'm falling for her best friend. So pretty much, this could get nasty pretty quickly. Any advice?
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Okay so first off let's do the hindsight thing that can't be changed now. Why on earth did you take the time to get to really know her best friend INSTEAD of the girl you thought you liked? Keep this in mind for the future, k? [/big sister tone]
As to what do you do now? Sounds to me like you need to focus on just being friends with both girls - without looking for something more than that. No matter which way things happen, one of the girls will probably be hurt when you start dating the other. Can't you just hang out as friends with the two of them?
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Originally Posted by Kenny C. Any advice? Don't mess with either of them. Make up your mind about what you want to do/whom you want to pursue and make it clear to both of them where they stand.
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Yeah, that's pretty much the route I was thinking of taking. I'd rather have two friends than two people that hate me.
Okay so first off let's do the hindsight thing that can't be changed now. Why on earth did you take the time to get to really know her best friend INSTEAD of the girl you thought you liked? Keep this in mind for the future, k? [/big sister tone]
Well, I talk to both a lot. It's just that I have more classes with her friend and stuff.
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I think that if you like two people at once then you don't really like either of them at all. Of course when you start talking to someone you're gonna grow closer to them. But much to often I see people crazy over one person and then the next minute they like someone else, so it was kinda just a crush. I dunno if that's how it is with you but jsut make sure it's not.