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Yeah... So there's this girl. I like her, and pretty much everyone I know knows I like her except her. And I have no idea if I should tell her. Here's where I need advice:
1. I don't know if I should tell her or not, because I don't want to mess up our friendship.
2. I have no idea if she likes me.... and when people say they think I have a crush on her she just thinks it's a conspiracy to get me and her to like each other(one of her older sister's crazy plans)
Anyone know what I'm going through? Any advice? And if you don't have any advice, could you please pray for me?
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I don't think it would mess up your friendship. How old are y'all by the way?
PS - I love your sig. "Ad majorem dei gloriam" is one of the mottos of my school. (Loyola University New Orleans)
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We're 15... and the normal response that I get is "don't worry about it you're too young" which is probably right, but this has been bothering me.
Thanks about my sig.... It's prolly my favorite latin phrase I actually know the meaning of, haha.
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Ok, then, I'll spare you the annoyance of having to read another duplicate reply.
Basically, here's the thing. If y'all are good friends and she's talking about people having conspiracies to make y'all like each other, there's a chance that she likes you too. In fact, I'd say it's a pretty good chance (though I obviously don't know). There's also a pretty good chance that she does suspect that you like her.
Given that, there's a pretty good chance if you tell her, something will develop out if it. The thing to decide now is what direction you want to take this thing. If you want to develop it into something more than just friendship, then I'd say tell her. If you don't, then don't tell her. Making it known that you like her (and if she likes you, she'd likely tell you that at the same time) would put a strain on trying to remain just friends.
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Thanks for the advice. Have a good night.
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i pretty much have the same problem..except that not everyone knows...but i think that if you already told everyone you know..then she probably already knows...and i would tell her if everyone knew...but yeah i dont really know, since i have the same problem...i hope this helps a little...
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If you want to develop it into something more than just friendship, then I'd say tell her. If you don't, then don't tell her.
Well, what I'd say is more along the lines of this: Wait to tell her until it really is the best time to start forming this sort of relationship. If you tell her now, then there's basically nothing that can happen other then getting into that sort of relationship, or awkwardly trying to pretend that those feelings don't exist, once they're out there, they're out there. So tell her at the time when a relationship sould be constructive, rather than just existing for the sake of existing. I'd say that due to your age, you may need to take some waiting time. You do, afterall, have plenty of time, since you're really not getting married any time soon. In the meantime, keep the friendship alive and well, and when you've determined that the time was right to move on to bigger and better things, then first pray a lot, then take things from there.
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Well said.
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Thanks for the advice guys. Right now I'll just pray about it.
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Oh man I'm there now. Okay, first, pray about it to see if God wants you to do it and if it's the right thing to do. If you do tell her, all you can do is what. It might come as a surprise, even if she knows you like her, and it might take her some time to think about it.