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YES!!the more I tell ehrbthat I wanna be alone and that she is too young AND I wann afocus on God, the more she keeps on saying that she believes God put us together.
she says her whole family wants us to go out, including her brother, who is this dude that sings fro a band called nolongernameless.
It is like she doesn't understand!!
I really have no clue. I did the right thing. told her that I ma basically just a crush, I will prolly go off to Africa or Europe on a mission trip and never come back or go way off somewhere on collehge, and she will be wasting her time adn mine because I know she is not my true love, God will reveal that in His time and place!!
so very frustrated. plus she is talking to my ex on myspace. my ex says she still cares about me, whioch hurts me even mroe because of the way my ex acts.
I am so confused
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Originally Posted by Thrash YES!!the more I tell ehrbthat I wanna be alone and that she is too young AND I wann afocus on God, the more she keeps on saying that she believes God put us together.
she says her whole family wants us to go out, including her brother, who is this dude that sings fro a band called nolongernameless.
It is like she doesn't understand!!
I really have no clue. I did the right thing. told her that I ma basically just a crush, I will prolly go off to Africa or Europe on a mission trip and never come back or go way off somewhere on collehge, and she will be wasting her time adn mine because I know she is not my true love, God will reveal that in His time and place!!
so very frustrated. plus she is talking to my ex on myspace. my ex says she still cares about me, whioch hurts me even mroe because of the way my ex acts.
I am so confused
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You told her all those things, but did you tell her that YOU WERE NOT INTERESTED? Not even in the slightest? If not...it is your fault.
There is nothing to be confused about. God does not want the two of you together or you wouldnt be feeling the way you do. You call her 'the kid' for goodness sake. I say....if you HAVE told her that you are not interested, not attracted, and more importantly REALLY FREAKED out by her behaviour. Then you need to cut all communications with her. There is no need to indulge a girl with such a 'scary crush".
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You could always go this route:
"I'm on speaking terms with God, so if He wants us to be together, I'll wait for Him to tell me. Right now, He's not telling me that, so I'm not interested in starting a relationship."
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Originally Posted by bobthecockroach You could always go this route:
"I'm on speaking terms with God, so if He wants us to be together, I'll wait for Him to tell me. Right now, He's not telling me that, so I'm not interested in starting a relationship."
that is basically what I have done. I told her that I don't want a realtionship with anyone at all until God tells me to, an dthat I don' thaink that will happen because if that ahppened anytime soon I would lose my focus on God.
SeekeroLight:
I basically tried to communicate that through telling her that God doesn't want me to haev anyone and I don't want anyone because all I want is God and temptation of having a g/f is very great.
and you are right, it is a scary crush.
especially when she says that her mom, dad, and bro want me to go out with her which makes it that much scary becasue it is like EVERYBODY is stuffing her full of that crap.
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Originally Posted by Thrash that is basically what I have done. I told her that I don't want a realtionship with anyone at all until God tells me to, an dthat I don' thaink that will happen because if that ahppened anytime soon I would lose my focus on God.
SeekeroLight:
I basically tried to communicate that through telling her that God doesn't want me to haev anyone and I don't want anyone because all I want is God and temptation of having a g/f is very great.
and you are right, it is a scary crush.
especially when she says that her mom, dad, and bro want me to go out with her which makes it that much scary becasue it is like EVERYBODY is stuffing her full of that crap.
The thing is. You have tried the nice route. Now try the direct route.
"Hello (her name), I would like to explain something to you. Dont talk, just listen. The reason I went to church camp was because I love God. Making friends and meeting new people is secondary to that. I did not go to camp looking for love, and in my case I did not find love while there. I understand that you have feelings for me. However, I do not have those feelings for you. At all. I would love if we could be friends. (only if you really want to be her friend) But unfortunately....your advances are a distraction from my walk with God. Please try to understand, that I need to concentrate on God right now. I do not want a relationship with anyone. And I only see you as a friend. Please take some time to think this over, before you get in touch with me."
after saying or writing something like that. you should have your problem solved.
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thanks. that will prolly... no it will definitely, work.
wow.. you have made my day!!
appreciate it homie
u are an
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Originally Posted by Thrash thanks. that will prolly... no it will definitely, work.
wow.. you have made my day!!
appreciate it homie
u are an
Your welcome. And I am def not angel......
well, maybe I am. A fallen angel. LOL. but for reals. I hope it works. Good luck.