Question:
How do I tell this girl that I like her, but I simply don't have time for a relationship right now?
Thanks!
Answer:
Don't tell her you like her, or tell her that you like her and you don't have time for a relationship right now.
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just do it.
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Open mouth, speak, close mouth. Very very simple.
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Well, I DO like her. But I simply don't have time. I want to say it in a way that would maybe make it easier, because I know she won't take it well.
I thought you guys would actually give some insight. Please don't be sarcastic, this is a sincere request.
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We're not being sarcastic. We think you should just be open and honest and not beat around the bush.
So, the be more clear. Here is what you should do:
"Hey, (girl's name), I really like you but I don't have the time for a relationship right now so I'd just like to be friends."
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We aren't being sarcastic. Just be honest. There is no reason to sugar-coat something.
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Well, if you have kissed her, held hands,or gone on multiple dates with this girl already, that MIGHT make telling her this a little more hard... But that's not her fault, that's you'rs for not being upfront in the first place bud.. You just need to be a man, buck it up, and tell her how it is honestly. Appologize for anything missleading that might have occured, and leave it to her what she wants to do about all of it.
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If you really like her, and want to date her, establish that you will not have a lot of time for her in the begining. I have made the mistake of not establishing that in the past, and it turns out ugly.
Establish that it will be hard, because you two will not be able to spend a lot of time together.
You need to establish what is in your plan, and let her decide if she is willing to be with during and after all of that.
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just be a friend to her. do u and the girl have stuff in common .
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Well, if you've kept your feelings on hold for a while, and she doesn't know you really like her or anything, there's really no reason to tell her.

However, don't be afraid that she's going to be repelled by you, either. People love to feel loved, and she shouldn't be afraid of anything if you don't have time for a relationship. Worst case scenario: she is dissapointed. You might just let her know that you like her, it's a nice thing to do, and quite encouraging. I say go for it, it'd be fun