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me and my girlfriend had a pretty serious talk last night about some stuff in our relationship that has changed that was bothering us, mainly it was on my end and now she feels really bad about it which is understandable but i dont want her to feel bad, is there anything that i can do to help her see its not all her fault and make her feel less bad about it, shes really depressed over it all. also could you pray for her about it, shes so depressed its scaring me...
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Talk to her and explain better that it's not her fault. Then, support her in every way you can.
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ive been tryin to explain it not her fault and ive been telling her im here for her in every way i can be but she seems to just get worse and worse. I have a friend that lives in the same town as her and he said shes getting worse too
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Is it possible to tell what tyes of things have changed that bother you? Is there any way you can work to improve these things yourself and show that the burden isn't hers to carry alone?
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Maybe she needs to talk to some one other than you about it all. You know, a friend or an older mentor maybe?
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shes been talkin to a friend but i talked to him he said she seems to be kind of pushing him away thought
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Hmm... Maybe I should have specified. I meant a female friend. Preferably of the older, more mature variety.
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that doesnt work, she lives in a really small town and she has no classmates that get along with her (a class of 30 people) and pretty much everyone leaves as soon as they graduate to get out of there to a bigger town, but as of last night she was doing better and hopefully that will continue throughout today, I know school gets her down some because of her classmates too.
edit: today she seems to be doing a lot better so thats good.