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well today is wendsday and i have youth group any one no what i can say to this girl i really like besides hello ? i have no idea i wish someone would post in this stupid thing i just wana be friends with her but its hard to even say hello when she sits near me i start to sweat and stuff i need some help i leave for youth group tonight at 7 oclock so some one post here sometime soon
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Here are some suggestions:
"Hey, how's school?"
"Hey, nice weather, eh?"
"Hey, what's the deal with Bobby over there?"
"Hey, what the hell is that on Joey's head?"
"Hey, what's up?"
And now the exclamatory versions:
"Hey, nice shirt!"
"Hey, I like your hair!"
"Hey, I'm glad to see you!"
"Hey, this CD is so great!"
"Hey!"
Umm... seriously... you shouldn't let your conversational skills go out the window just because you're infatuated with someone. Put on some extra deodorant and just talk. It's really not that hard once you get going.
In His love,
Nate
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Originally Posted by Nate Here are some suggestions:
"Hey, how's school?"
"Hey, nice weather, eh?"
"Hey, what's the deal with Bobby over there?"
"Hey, what the hell is that on Joey's head?"
"Hey, what's up?"
And now the exclamatory versions:
"Hey, nice shirt!"
"Hey, I like your hair!"
"Hey, I'm glad to see you!"
"Hey, this CD is so great!"
"Hey!"
Umm... seriously... you shouldn't let your conversational skills go out the window just because you're infatuated with someone. Put on some extra deodorant and just talk. It's really not that hard once you get going.
In His love,
Nate thanx its hard bc there are always other guys flocking around her i use deoderant i bought expenive clogne i shower befor its easy to talk to a girl i nthe internet but un real life its hard i also wash my clothing befor
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Originally Posted by supertonesrock thanx its hard bc there are always other guys flocking around her i use deoderant i bought expenive clogne i shower befor its easy to talk to a girl i nthe internet but un real life its hard i also wash my clothing befor
Ok, here's a better idea... don't wear the expensive cologne or shower or do laundry or put on extra deodorant right before you come to church. It's obvious from all of these things you mentioned that all you're thinking about is this girl and impressing her. Quite honestly, that's not why you should be at church, and (leaving the religiousity aside for now) that's actually not a good way at all to attract women. People can generally see through false fronts, and this girl will be able to tell that you're just trying to impress someone (though she may not realize it's her that you're trying to impress). I suggest you shower right now, put on a clean change of casual clothes, skip the expensive cologne, and, all-in-all, try not to stress about going to church or talking to her or anything else.
Relax.
The world is not going to end if you don't get to talk to her tonight. The world will also not end if another guy talks to her at the same time you're talking to her. The world will certainly not end if you never end up getting together with this particular girl. When the girl comes around that you're really "supposed" to be with, she'll be as interested in you as you are in her. The days of wooing women over so that they even pay attention to you really should be over by the time you leave middle school (not saying they should even occur then, mind you). Don't try so hard.
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Originally Posted by Nate Ok, here's a better idea... don't wear the expensive cologne or shower or do laundry or put on extra deodorant right before you come to church. It's obvious from all of these things you mentioned that all you're thinking about is this girl and impressing her. Quite honestly, that's not why you should be at church, and (leaving the religiousity aside for now) that's actually not a good way at all to attract women. People can generally see through false fronts, and this girl will be able to tell that you're just trying to impress someone (though she may not realize it's her that you're trying to impress). I suggest you shower right now, put on a clean change of casual clothes, skip the expensive cologne, and, all-in-all, try not to stress about going to church or talking to her or anything else.
Relax.
The world is not going to end if you don't get to talk to her tonight. The world will also not end if another guy talks to her at the same time you're talking to her. The world will certainly not end if you never end up getting together with this particular girl. When the girl comes around that you're really "supposed" to be with, she'll be as interested in you as you are in her. The days of wooing women over so that they even pay attention to you really should be over by the time you leave middle school (not saying they should even occur then, mind you). Don't try so hard. i think you have me wrong you see i want to be friends with her but there is never a moment i can talk with her when i go to talk i ger nervous and sweat and i am not trying to impress her i just like the clonge and i masks the sent of my sweat and no i dont use alot of it
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Originally Posted by supertonesrock i think you have me wrong you see i want to be friends with her but there is never a moment i can talk with her when i go to talk i ger nervous and sweat and i am not trying to impress her i just like the clonge and i masks the sent of my sweat and no i dont use alot of it
Like I said, just relax. There is absolutely no reason to get nervous talking to someone... anyone.
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I guess since the thread starter was banned, I can close this...