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Uhm...So here's the deal: I just realized that the gurl that I liked wasn't for me so I decided to let go...Now there's another problem coming up to me. There's another gurl who's been a very close friend of mine, whom I'm starting to like...She was also the one who helped me when I let go of the gurl b4...They're both good close friends too.
Here's the thing. I don't know If the gurl likes me or not. In our class, there's some1 who's been sending out links on crush calculators and such...but all of it was sort of like pranks juz to get oithers to know who likes who...The gurl didn't know if it was a prank or not...but I told her it maybe is...So she put three names of guys she liked...the first 2 guys were her past "crushes" and now she put the 3rd guy as me...Now that I've seen the results...I dunno if she likes me or not..Help me please =)
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Ask her.
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You sure? Cause I don't want to ruin the friendship...
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Then don't ask her.
Sounds like you have some decisions to make. The first of which is what kind of relationship (if any) you want to pursue. If you're ready for a relationship and want to be in one with her, then ask her. If you're not interested in a relationship, you'd do best to not say anything at all. Of course, if she said she had a crush on you, then she probably likes you too. Whatever you do, don't let pranks and "crush calculators" run your relationship for you. If you want to pursue a relationship, pursue it. If you don't, just be friends.
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Originally Posted by bobthecockroach Then don't ask her.
Sounds like you have some decisions to make. The first of which is what kind of relationship (if any) you want to pursue. If you're ready for a relationship and want to be in one with her, then ask her. If you're not interested in a relationship, you'd do best to not say anything at all. Of course, if she said she had a crush on you, then she probably likes you too. Whatever you do, don't let pranks and "crush calculators" run your relationship for you. If you want to pursue a relationship, pursue it. If you don't, just be friends. Yeah I agree with Bob, if you want to know just ask her, if she's a good friend, she'll understand.
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Don't be secretive, tell 'er. teh other two guys are right!
Besides, she prolly put your name on their so that you would see your name and then ask her out or tel her that you like her. Girls are mysterious creatures...
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if you have a great friendship with her then you shouldn't have to worry about ruining it if she doesn't want to go out with you
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what the crap is a crush calculator???
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Yeah, I wanna know that too. Cause I wanna find out who likes me...
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i think its like a 1 to 10 scale on how much you like someone........
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Originally Posted by bobthecockroach Ask her. I think I like bobthecockroach. He is pretty literal.
He is right. You will never know unless you ask. I mean, it might be akward at first if she doesnt like you, but you guys can get over it.
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Originally Posted by Gains238 I think I like bobthecockroach. He is pretty literal.
I dont like bobthecockroach. Mainly cause everytime I see his posts I have an undying urge to take off one of my thongs (flip-flops for you Americans with dirty minds) and squash him with it.
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Uh...a Crush Calculator is sorta like...uh....it's like a prank..A person makes an account with it..sends it over email to lots of ppl...then these ppl will go to the website(out of curiosity) then put 3 names of ppl who they like....then thier answers will be forwarded with the person who made the account there...so he would know who this certain friend of his likes...if u get what i mean...
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Yep, ask her. One thing I learned this summer is that a girl's liking of you isn't a prerequisite for asking her out. If she says no, then that's fine too; you still have a friendship, and then you two can talk about it.