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Help with making up with a friend.

Question:
I need help with making up with a friend. she thinks I don't want to be around her and one of my other friends asked if I was avoiding her and I said no and he told her and she is still upset. what should I do?
Answer:
If she really is your friend you shouldnt have to ask this. Dont stop talking to her. Friends are always there for eachother. If you start to ignore her, which would make her more upset, that doesnt make you a very good friend does it?
Answer:
get her a rose and apologise [even tho u didnt do anything]
it usually works for me in situations like that
Answer:
Er... tell her your sorry she got the impression that you were avoiding her, that you aren't, and that you still want to be friends.
Answer:
ok this one hits a lil too close to home for me. every situation is different and whether or not she has a reason to feel how she's feeling i know how she feels.
so what i would suggest...
actions speak louder than words. don't have only one conversation with her or her friend about the situation. have the conversation with her and then keep talking to her. nto about this but about everything, abotu your day your week , your lil sister whatever. and ask her how hers was. when you wanna do something with friends make sure to invite her. for now even if you don't wanna do something with friends make a plan to.
but the key is dont stop. if you are too busy then i dunno how this would work but the main thing is she proabably just wants to hear from you and hang out with you more. maybe she's sick of being the one to pick up the the phone or make the plans.
again i am probably making to many assumptions but the situation sounds exactly like a reason why i refuse to talk to this one guy any more. but i'm sure your situation won't turn out like that as long as you start just getting a lil bit more involved in her life (just a lil).
o ya and don't make her ever have to repeat this feeling cuz she may stop talking to you.
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