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I often try to write songs and I posted them in my MySpace blog. Anyways, I posted one about one of my friends that said I wished I could tell her that I like her. Like an idiot, I even told her to go and read it. Well, one of my guy friends told me that she figured it out. Now I'm so embarassed I don't think I can even look at her again. I'm gonna see her at church tonight, so would someone please tell me what I should do!
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Calm down? What's so terrible about a girl knowing you like her?
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It sounds like on some level you wanted her to know. Why else are you telling her to go and read a song about her? I realise it's embarassing and you probably think you're going to die now, but things will die down eventually.
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Calm down. What's so terrrible about a girl knowing you like her? Let's see, she once told me in this bulletin on MySpace where she answered questions about me that she just wants to be friends, and probably thinks I'm weird or something now.
Originally Posted by Chris It sounds like on some level you wanted her to know. Why else are you telling her to go and read a song about her? I realise it's embarassing and you probably think you're going to die now, but things will die down eventually. I wanted her to comment on it, but I didn't ever want her to know. And I hope things die down. I think I'm going to hide in the bathrooms at church tonight because I don't think I'll be able to look at her in person.
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I once dropped alot of hints that I liked this girl. And I didnt want her to really know. But some of friends knew. And she eventually figured it out. And I thot I was going to die, and never be able to show my face in public again.
And trust me, its not that horrible. You are going to go into youth group, or what ever. You are going to sit down, and be calm. You will feel embarassed, and you will have the dumbest look on your face that you have ever had. And it will PASS! believe me. Eventually, the weirdness will go away, and thatll be it. If you can face tonight without anything happening, then that will probably be it.
And I doubt she will care all that much anyways.
Like I said, just be cool. And try to talk to her. Make sure of how she feels. Try to clear the air. That will help get the feeling of wierdness or whatever to pass.
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Even if she doesn't have any feelings for you, she will likely still be flattered that you wrote a song for her. You may feel embrassed, especially if your affections are not returned, but the the embarassment won't last. Just treat her as you always do, no need to hide, you may feel embarassed but act as normally as you can and it shall pass in time. Her knowing is not the worse thing that could happen.
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Originally Posted by thedemonhunter Let's see, she once told me in this bulletin on MySpace where she answered questions about me that she just wants to be friends, and probably thinks I'm weird or something now. I doubt she thinks you are weird just for liking her.
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well thanks for the advice guys. I'm going to church pretty soon, so I guess I'll try to act normal, even though I'm going to embarassed beyond belief.
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good luck
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Tell us how it went.
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Well it didn't seem to go very well, she didn't even talk to me but when I asked some other friends to tell her that, they said she didn't know what to say. But when I got back I checked my MySpace messages and she said she was sorry for being so mean.
Then she said she needed to straighten things out with some other guy- she said they liked each other for 2 years and thought something might happen- when their families get together at New Year's Eve. "Shakespeare" was right, she thought the song was very sweet, and she said I have no need to be embarassed.
(By the way, you guys might wanna read the song yourself. Go here and look in the blogs. But wait a while- it's set so only my friends can read it and I'm typing this at school, where MySpace is blocked. I'll change it in about an hour. And please leave a comment, I really want people to.)
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that went over well. im glad to hear a story that ended somewhat happy.
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what's the title of the song? i read some of them and yeah they were good. i just couldn't tell which one's the one hehe
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ok nevermind..found the song hehe
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well im hoping you arent having any more problems liking this girl haha