Question:
ok, so I'm 17, and I've already had a boyfriend. We broke up about a year and a half ago, but I just can't seem to figure out why I can't get him out of my head. He's always on my mind, and I miss him so much.
My Dilema: I like this guy, he's 18, and we are really good friends, and he told me that he likes me too, but isn't ready for a g/f. So, I took it, and we are just friends now.. but I'm still having mixed feelings, about liking him as more than that. But... I can't get my ex out of my head, and I don't know what to do about it. Everyone is telling me to get rid of everything I have of his,(i don't have anything) stop looking at pictures, stop talking to him... blah blah blah...
I'm not a person that can do that.. I'm still "friends" with him, but sometimes I feel as though it should/could be more. But what about Evan, my friend that I kinda like too...
What should I do?
Answer:
I would suggest you do nothing. That is nothing in regards to pursueing a relationship until you can sort some of this out in your head. If you go after the new guy while still "loving" the old guy, you are going to be comparing the two or trying to make him into the old guy and that's flat out not fair to him.
Answer:
It sounds like you are not ready for any sort of relationship at all. If you were, you wouldn't be having this problem. I suggest you simply try to get over your ex and not pursue anything with this "new" guy, but just remain friends.
Answer:
Rach has a point.
How could it be true love if you have feelings for both of them?
That type of love belongs to one person only.