Question:
Well... this is i guess kinda for both me and my friend. My side of it is that through talking to my friend online i've slowly fallen deeply in love with her. I've told her about it and she's okay with it, I think its really cool that God kinda gave me a *hello there* with this, i was afraid to talk to her because i didnt know if she would understand, and i eventually remembered after missing a few chances to talk to her, "dont be afraid, just believe". God gave me the strength to step out and realize that he was in control of the storm i was in, and he was going to calm it for me, if i would just step out in faith, and now i see how obvious it was before, and it amazes me. But i guess that, naturally, i want to eventually spend my life serving the lord with her at my side, but i want her to be happy, and i want the lords will to be accomplished more than anything.
Also i know that she deeply cares for my closest friend, Jacob, and she's asked me to tell him. I know also that Jake is blessed (depending on how you look at it, ive liked many many ppl) with never so much as liking any girl in a way other than as a friend, when he tells me that, i know he is being honest, which amazes me. Im kind of sad for Sydney (my friend whom im in love with) because ive been through this, and am in fact going through this with her right now, and it hurts when you love someone and know that they dont like you. It hurts even more if you like someone and dont know how they feel, at least for me. I guess id just like prayer for her to be strong in this test of faith, and just for both of us to continue in God's path, just to do what He wants to be done. And it may sound silly but I'd like prayer for her happiness, i want her to be happy more than anything. Thanx guys for reading and for prayers...
Best wishes to all of you...
Tristan
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I'm finding it difficult to understand that she would ask you, who she's know you like her alot, to tell this other guy that she likes him.

Thats rather uncaring and not very thoughtful or tactful at all. This doesn't show respect for your feelings.

She needs to be more mature and tell this guy herself! You are not her messenger.... and not there to be used either!

Never the less, you are in my prayers.
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please dont put her down, regardless of what it may seem she's doing... i cant explain it but i know her, she didnt mean that. It's just that... well im not good at explaining, but u know... i know her. And i love her. I dont mean to sound... well... like a jerk bc chances are you didnt mean anything bad by it, but respect my feelings for her.
But aside from that, thank you, it helps.
By the way, shes thirteen, im fourteen if that helps.
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I wasn't putting her down. Sometimes, one needs to be told how it is, emotions cloud ones judgement.

I'm sorry you have to go through this. It's not a nice place to be in.
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i know what it is like. continue to have faith and seek after God.
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ur in my prayers. Just trust god with this one He'll never let you down!