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Ex-Boyfriend Murdered, having a hard time dealing.

Question:
Please pray for me, my ex boyfriend was shot to death on 2/11/06. He was 20 yrs old. Please pray that I will be able to grieve his loss and let him go. I really did and do love this person with all my heart. I attended the funeral today, and I cannot get him out of my head. I am having issues with death in and of itself as well. It is weird that he was here and then gone like that.
There is a suspect, but please pray that the person that did this will come to justice.
He was not in church, but knows God. I can just hope and pray that he had time to make things right. I hope and pray with all my heart that he is up there waiting for me, but I dunno, and that bothers me the most. He just got himself involve with alot of bad things and didn't have the courage to come back to church.
I talk to a friend today that also quit going to my church and he said that my ex had asked him to stay with him and go to Bible Study with him, but he didn't, so I know that his heart was in the right place, there was just no action to go with it.
I just feel really guilty, he couldn't come back because he couldn't bear to see me married to someone else. I think all the time now, what if. What if I took him back when he called me begging (while we were dating). (He was constantly cheating and had started using drugs.) Would he be dead? Are we destined to die at a certain time, or does time and chance just happen. Was he just in the wrong place at the wrong time.
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Originally Posted by Living Proof Please pray for me, my ex boyfriend was shot to death on 2/11/06. He was 20 yrs old. Please pray that I will be able to grieve his loss and let him go. I really did and do love this person with all my heart. I attended the funeral today, and I cannot get him out of my head. I am having issues with death in and of itself as well. It is weird that he was here and then gone like that.
There is a suspect, but please pray that the person that did this will come to justice.
He was not in church, but knows God. I can just hope and pray that he had time to make things right. I hope and pray with all my heart that he is up there waiting for me, but I dunno, and that bothers me the most. He just got himself involve with alot of bad things and didn't have the courage to come back to church.
I talk to a friend today that also quit going to my church and he said that my ex had asked him to stay with him and go to Bible Study with him, but he didn't, so I know that his heart was in the right place, there was just no action to go with it.
I just feel really guilty, he couldn't come back because he couldn't bear to see me married to someone else. I think all the time now, what if. What if I took him back when he called me begging (while we were dating). (He was constantly cheating and had started using drugs.) Would he be dead? Are we destined to die at a certain time, or does time and chance just happen. Was he just in the wrong place at the wrong time. I'll be praying for you.
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Praying for you, LP
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Thanks all you guys, I really do appreciate it. I am trying not to let myself get so far down that I cannot get back up. This is really hard for me as it would be for anyone, but I covet your prayers because I know that God is the only one that can give me peace and comfort in my heart.
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